2020 is becoming a defining year for most of us.  We are experiencing a kind of stress that we have never had to deal with.  We are living in spaces that suddenly seem too small.  We are living with people who suddenly seem too messy.  We are dealing with a larger list of chores then ever before and there is just no escaping it.   And for a lot of us, it is overwhelm like nothing else.   For a person like me, multitasking was like second nature.  I thrived on having “one too many things on my to do list.” Not any…