The husband and I got married right after I finished university.  To some it may seem a little on the quicker end of the scale – and in hindsight – it was.  I think we were both very inexperienced and still just learning to manage ourselves. This post is written from the perspective of our specific marriage. We were in a relationship for 5 years prior to marrying.  We really thought it would be an easy transition, but boy, were we in for a wake up call. 8 Lessons in 8 Years of Marriage 1.Year one is the hardest.  Just…